When they are newlyweds, the heat is on but it is not necessary that it is the same with both the partners. The male could be more into it while the female takes her time, or it could be vice-versa. Both partners should be on the same page.
Sometimes men tend to ejaculate way too soon and the art of satisfying a woman takes time. Not everyone is born with it. Same goes for orgasm. Many times, women fake their orgasm because they think they have to make the man feel “manly” by letting him hear what he fancies. This can be a major issue. Some women can also take a long time and the right moves to reach that point. So it needs a lot of patience, understanding and you need to communicate.
3. Using a condom
Now this can be rather clumsy in the beginning unless you have been regular at it before the wedding night. Using contraception is important unless you are planning a family already. Some men even discard the condom mid-way without consent which is just not what the woman may like. So talk about it and help each other out.
You do not have to always be in the mood to do it. Sometimes there may be instances when you just do not want to do it. This should be understood and accepted by the partner. This goes for both men and women.
5. Unrealistic hopes
It is good to fantasize but putting the pressure on your partner for it is just not okay. Secondly, what you read in a book and see on TV is all staged and imagined, not the reality. No one is flawless and it cannot always be smooth.